My late husband, Paul, and I married on this day forty years ago. Paul was 28 years old, and I was 22 years old. Surrounded by family and friends, we were full of love and anticipation for life ahead. There, of course, will always be a part of me that would have wanted more years together. However, with support from family, friends, and the Lord, I can hold onto memories and remain present. 

Today, I will spend the day with my three daughters and soon-to-be son-in-law, a beautiful way to be present.  

With love,

Patty